Identify and Deal with Narcissists. A Guide.

I love digging into the topic of the narcissist (otherwise known as a difficult person) especially right now with Trump in office, and the upcoming election. Why? Well, to identify and deal with narcissists of course. Now, this has nothing to do with whether or not...

When Your Energy Aligns with Your Business. It’s Easier.

Last week I was presented with an enticing opportunity but, before I tell you what it is I am going to let you in on a little secret...I turned it down. As business owners, opportunity comes at us from all angles. Sometimes it is ideal, while other times it is not...

Run Your Business Effectively. It’s about being efficient.

Efficiency is key on how to run your business effectively. I am willing to bet money that you too often make salvageable mistakes that cost you thousands of dollars with a tremendous toll to your body. Why is this? The answer: Being inefficient while dealing with...

Addiction to Making Yourself Wrong. How to Stop It.

Are you addicted to making yourself wrong? Now, I do not care how accomplished you are, how many gold medals you have won, or how many accolades you have because no matter how successful you are, inside there is likely a piece of you that likes to make yourself wrong!...

Lead Your Company with a Healthy Mental State

Lead your company to new heights! It is not as straightforward as it may seem though. Ever got snagged and procrastinate over some issue? Maybe it's just a problem of weeding out your garden. No, I have not changed gears! I am talking about the garden of your mind....

The Danger Lurking In Every Sales Call

Every single time we make a sales call, there is danger lurking around the corner. As business owners, we have all been programmed and conditioned to think about generating more sales. “Lack of sales is the problem with my business! So, I need more sales! I. really....

That Mangy Mutt That Got In Your Way to Success

Do you have a mangy mutt on your payroll that you.. Just. Can’t. Shake? Nooo, I am not talking about an actual dog! I am referring to the one key person (that you have likely had from the beginning) who underperforms and spends most of their time scratching at...

EARN MORE MONEY BY INVESTING IN YOUR MENTAL HEALTH

Let me ask you a few questions. Have you noticed that as you earn more money, more hands grab at your pockets? Are you bothered by these people who are trying to get the money that you work so hard to earn? Realistically, as you grow, people will notice. As a result,...

Understanding and Dealing with Someone Lashing Out

Has anyone called you a cold heartless bitch lately? If not, perhaps your business is not big enough. The thing is, the more you grow your business the more people want to judge you. These individuals want what you have but are unwilling to let go of something near...

Bust Through Business Ceilings and See Possibilities

If you think that you are safe from the proverbial glass ceiling just because you own your own business, think again! I often see that women business owners, in comparison to their male counterparts, will put themselves in a position of under-earning. And,...
When Your Prince (or Princess) Becomes a Frog

When Your Prince (or Princess) Becomes a Frog

He’s perfect.  Handsome, charming and a great conversationalist.  They’ve swept you off your feet the perfect food, conversation, attention and sex.  You have become the starring attraction in your own castle.  At least until your castle walls came crumbling down and...

Where’s the Joy?

Where’s the Joy?

Have our lives become so easy that we have lost the joy of the challenges in life? We have things so easy these days in so many ways (at least in the first world countries), that I wonder if we are really doing ourselves a disservice with all of this ease. There is an...

Mila Kunis on Sexism and Gender Bias in the Workplace

Mila Kunis on Sexism and Gender Bias in the Workplace

I am posting this article in full because it resonates so strongly with me - and other women I know.  The message is all too often a reality for us.  May I present: You’ll Never Work In This Town Again… "If this is happening to me, it is happening more aggressively to...

Are you a Rosa Parks?

Are you a Rosa Parks?

Rosa was the black woman who choose to break the law and sit in the “white” section of the bus and although she was arrested her courage was instrumental in change the laws of segregation. Her action was a key component in the Civil Rights Movement. Fast forward to...

The Unicorn and The Goats

The Unicorn and The Goats

I had a fantastic catch up with a friend last night and as she was sharing her frustrations with her networking group it struck me how much she was defaulting to making herself wrong instead of acknowledging her gifts and talents. I have watched her over the years try...

Self-Help: Boost or Trap?

Over the years, I’ve encountered many lines that lead to self-help programs, books and speakers. There is an entire business model built around the idea that there is something wrong with you. I find this frustrating and exasperating. You’re here, on my list – YOU are...

How to Use Your Team

How to Use Your Team

Team (noun, ‘teem’): A number of persons associated in some joint action. Having just hired someone to manage me, I thought I would talk to you about your teams.  We all have physical support in the form of friends, family and coworkers, but we do not always take...

I am HAVING that!

I am HAVING that!

[headline style="2" align="center" headline_tag="h2"] Universe Bring me..... [/headline] When you step into the energy of choosing what you want, and I mean really choosing it then the Universe goes to work to bring it to you. There is a difference between the wanting...

Give up saying “Sorry” if you want to be free!

Give up saying “Sorry” if you want to be free!

There is something so Canadian about saying "sorry" that you may not even notice how it is eroding your self esteem and your ability to go for what you want. It might seem extreme, but look at it. How many times do you say sorry without even thinking about it? Bumping...

This woman changes the world by taking the face off dolls.

This woman changes the world by taking the face off dolls.

I stumbled on this recently and I was so impressed with the story that I had to share it with you. She did not intend to go global with this and although she is not rolling in the dough from it (yet), she is making a huge splash in the world and getting people to...

Why Declaring Your Financial Goals Gets you No Where

Why Declaring Your Financial Goals Gets you No Where

This year I am refusing to answer anyone when they ask me what my financial goals are for 2016.   The thing is that over the years I have noticed that there is a big difference between the fantasy thinking of declaring a financial goal to the world and...

How to get your head out of your Ass!

How to get your head out of your Ass!

Have you ever hit that loop where no matter what you try, how many tools you use you just can’t seem to shake out of the negative thought patterns and lack of flow in your life? I get it and have been there many times myself. In fact just two weeks ago I was there and...

What your kids really want for Christmas!

What your kids really want for Christmas!

This video put on by Ikea touched me and expresses something I have often said about Christmas and families so I could not resist putting it into a blog post for you. I grew up not celebrating Christmas and that gave me a very different outlook on the holiday. I tend...

The surprising thing about being a Dominatrix

The surprising thing about being a Dominatrix

I have wrestled with putting up this post for a while. I have managed to drag my heels for nearly a month with every lame excuse going for why I don't have time to put it up. The truth is that I have been nervous and excited about the possible reactions to this...

Stop Abusing Your Feminine Power

Stop Abusing Your Feminine Power

We as women can own our power without needing to squash or put down men in the process

Step in and claim your quiet powerful feminine energy.

Avoid These Mistakes When Asking a Question

Avoid These Mistakes When Asking a Question

Asking questions to get new information is used in many modalities and practices. You ask questions of the universe to expand your current awareness level and get new information.

It is not to get anything from your mind, since your mind is very limited and will only tell you what you already know.

Karma Is Bullshit! Find out why…

Karma Is Bullshit! Find out why…

Moving into consciousness requires a release of judgments. This includes the judgments we have of ourselves, and it is way easier when we eliminate the judgmental systems that activate our self punishment in the first place.

Why Affirmations Fail! How to Fix it!

Why Affirmations Fail! How to Fix it!

I would say these lovely affirmations and then my monkey mind would go “yeah right, as if”. So would it bring in the money. No! What it did was make me focus on what was broken and not working in my life.

50 Shades of Controversy

50 Shades of Controversy I love it when a movie comes out that stirs the pot. 50 Shades is just that movie for people. You really get to see where people are at by how they talk about the movie and the whole kink scene in general. There are those who are intrigued and...