Being a Control Freak. Is it Hurting Your Business?

Being a Control Freak. Is it Hurting Your Business?

How can you determine whether your need to be in control is helping you move forward or hindering you in some way? As a former dominatrix, I know all about being in control! When I was in the “space of the dungeon” with my clients, being in control was necessary. My...
“It was Never About the Toilet Paper”

“It was Never About the Toilet Paper”

Armageddon, Trauma and PTSD during a Pandemic I shut off the screen but the headlines suspend in that second, etched in my mind, like the voices of my father and mother who repeatedly insisted I had to perfectly follow their beliefs or I would not be saved when “the...
Black Friday Grinch

Black Friday Grinch

If I get one more ‘Black Friday’ or ‘Cyber Monday’ deal in my inbox I think I am going to puke! I may have become the Grinch of Black Friday deals. Only instead of stealing the happy Christmas, I want to make all the FOMO (fear of missing out)...
Being Late, Disrespect & Memories

Being Late, Disrespect & Memories

I sipped on my coffee while mindlessly scrolling through Facebook and I find myself silently laughing over a post that my friend put up. “What are your pet peeves?” She asked Of course, people love to have a chance to vent, so there was a wide range of responses, but...
Lest We Forget …. But Maybe We Should

Lest We Forget …. But Maybe We Should

You won’t forget the terror, yet you regularly forget that you are whole and perfect the way you are. Each year on the anniversary of something tragic, like 9/11, masses of people recount where they were and how they were impacted. The thing is, we end up...