by Dana Pharant | May 11, 2020 | Blogs
How can you determine whether your need to be in control is helping you move forward or hindering you in some way? As a former dominatrix, I know all about being in control! When I was in the “space of the dungeon” with my clients, being in control was necessary. My...
by Dana Pharant | Apr 15, 2020 | Blogs
Armageddon, Trauma and PTSD during a Pandemic I shut off the screen but the headlines suspend in that second, etched in my mind, like the voices of my father and mother who repeatedly insisted I had to perfectly follow their beliefs or I would not be saved when “the...
by Dana Pharant | Jan 20, 2017 | Blogs
There was a time in my life that I can honestly say I was very attached to my victim status. I did go through some crap in my life and there are things that I was a victim of, but I am talking about after those actual instances were over and how I lived my life on a...
by Dana Pharant | Mar 6, 2017 | Blogs
In general, people assume that by being a Dominatrix, it is very easy for you to accept gifts from other people. By gifts, I mean their adoration, help/assistance, etc. However, accepting continual service or affection for an hour or more without a break can be...
by Dana Pharant | Feb 19, 2017 | Blogs
What exactly is feminine power? You hear a lot of people talking about feminine energy or feminine power these days. There seem to be a lot of people, mostly women, talking about stepping into their power. People are looking for ways to to go bigger and own their...