Tapping into Your Feminine Power

What exactly is feminine power?  You hear a lot of people talking about feminine energy or feminine power these days. There seem to be a lot of people, mostly women, talking about stepping into their power.  People are looking for ways to to go bigger and own their...
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Letting Yourself Receive

In general, people assume that by being a Dominatrix, it is very easy for you to accept gifts from other people.  By gifts, I mean their adoration, help/assistance, etc.  However, accepting continual service or affection for an hour or more without a break can be...
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Why I Loved Being a Victim

There was a time in my life that I can honestly say I was very attached to my victim status. I did go through some crap in my life and there are things that I was a victim of, but I am talking about after those actual instances were over and how I lived my life on a...
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Where’s the Joy?

Have our lives become so easy that we have lost the joy of the challenges in life? We have things so easy these days in so many ways (at least in the first world countries), that I wonder if we are really doing ourselves a disservice with all of this ease. There is an...
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When Your Prince (or Princess) Becomes a Frog

He’s perfect.  Handsome, charming and a great conversationalist.  They’ve swept you off your feet the perfect food, conversation, attention and sex.  You have become the starring attraction in your own castle.  At least until your castle walls came crumbling down and...
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Mila Kunis on Sexism and Gender Bias in the Workplace

I am posting this article in full because it resonates so strongly with me - and other women I know.  The message is all too often a reality for us.  May I present: You’ll Never Work In This Town Again… "If this is happening to me, it is happening more aggressively to...
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Are you a Rosa Parks?

Rosa was the black woman who choose to break the law and sit in the “white” section of the bus and although she was arrested her courage was instrumental in change the laws of segregation. Her action was a key component in the Civil Rights Movement. Fast forward to...
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The Unicorn and The Goats

I had a fantastic catch up with a friend last night and as she was sharing her frustrations with her networking group it struck me how much she was defaulting to making herself wrong instead of acknowledging her gifts and talents. I have watched her over the years try...
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Self-Help: Boost or Trap?

Over the years, I’ve encountered many lines that lead to self-help programs, books and speakers. There is an entire business model built around the idea that there is something wrong with you. I find this frustrating and exasperating. You’re here, on my list – YOU are...
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How to Use Your Team

Team (noun, ‘teem’): A number of persons associated in some joint action. Having just hired someone to manage me, I thought I would talk to you about your teams.  We all have physical support in the form of friends, family and coworkers, but we do not always take...
Read More

Tapping into Your Feminine Power

What exactly is feminine power?  You hear a lot of people talking about feminine energy or feminine power these days. There seem to be a lot of people, mostly women, talking about stepping into their power.  People are looking for ways to to go bigger and own their...

Letting Yourself Receive

In general, people assume that by being a Dominatrix, it is very easy for you to accept gifts from other people.  By gifts, I mean their adoration, help/assistance, etc.  However, accepting continual service or affection for an hour or more without a break can be...

Why I Loved Being a Victim

There was a time in my life that I can honestly say I was very attached to my victim status. I did go through some crap in my life and there are things that I was a victim of, but I am talking about after those actual instances were over and how I lived my life on a...

Where’s the Joy?

Have our lives become so easy that we have lost the joy of the challenges in life? We have things so easy these days in so many ways (at least in the first world countries), that I wonder if we are really doing ourselves a disservice with all of this ease. There is an...

When Your Prince (or Princess) Becomes a Frog

He’s perfect.  Handsome, charming and a great conversationalist.  They’ve swept you off your feet the perfect food, conversation, attention and sex.  You have become the starring attraction in your own castle.  At least until your castle walls came crumbling down and...

Mila Kunis on Sexism and Gender Bias in the Workplace

I am posting this article in full because it resonates so strongly with me - and other women I know.  The message is all too often a reality for us.  May I present: You’ll Never Work In This Town Again… "If this is happening to me, it is happening more aggressively to...

Are you a Rosa Parks?

Rosa was the black woman who choose to break the law and sit in the “white” section of the bus and although she was arrested her courage was instrumental in change the laws of segregation. Her action was a key component in the Civil Rights Movement. Fast forward to...

The Unicorn and The Goats

I had a fantastic catch up with a friend last night and as she was sharing her frustrations with her networking group it struck me how much she was defaulting to making herself wrong instead of acknowledging her gifts and talents. I have watched her over the years try...

Self-Help: Boost or Trap?

Over the years, I’ve encountered many lines that lead to self-help programs, books and speakers. There is an entire business model built around the idea that there is something wrong with you. I find this frustrating and exasperating. You’re here, on my list – YOU are...

How to Use Your Team

Team (noun, ‘teem’): A number of persons associated in some joint action. Having just hired someone to manage me, I thought I would talk to you about your teams.  We all have physical support in the form of friends, family and coworkers, but we do not always take...

I am HAVING that!

[headline style="2" align="center" headline_tag="h2"] Universe Bring me..... [/headline] When you step into the energy of choosing what you want, and I mean really choosing it then the Universe goes to work to bring it to you. There is a difference between the wanting...

Give up saying “Sorry” if you want to be free!

There is something so Canadian about saying "sorry" that you may not even notice how it is eroding your self esteem and your ability to go for what you want. It might seem extreme, but look at it. How many times do you say sorry without even thinking about it? Bumping...

This woman changes the world by taking the face off dolls.

I stumbled on this recently and I was so impressed with the story that I had to share it with you. She did not intend to go global with this and although she is not rolling in the dough from it (yet), she is making a huge splash in the world and getting people to...

Why Declaring Your Financial Goals Gets you No Where

This year I am refusing to answer anyone when they ask me what my financial goals are for 2016.   The thing is that over the years I have noticed that there is a big difference between the fantasy thinking of declaring a financial goal to the world and...

How to get your head out of your Ass!

Have you ever hit that loop where no matter what you try, how many tools you use you just can’t seem to shake out of the negative thought patterns and lack of flow in your life? I get it and have been there many times myself. In fact just two weeks ago I was there and...

What your kids really want for Christmas!

This video put on by Ikea touched me and expresses something I have often said about Christmas and families so I could not resist putting it into a blog post for you. I grew up not celebrating Christmas and that gave me a very different outlook on the holiday. I tend...

The surprising thing about being a Dominatrix

I have wrestled with putting up this post for a while. I have managed to drag my heels for nearly a month with every lame excuse going for why I don't have time to put it up. The truth is that I have been nervous and excited about the possible reactions to this...

Stop Abusing Your Feminine Power

We as women can own our power without needing to squash or put down men in the process

Step in and claim your quiet powerful feminine energy.

Avoid These Mistakes When Asking a Question

Asking questions to get new information is used in many modalities and practices. You ask questions of the universe to expand your current awareness level and get new information.

It is not to get anything from your mind, since your mind is very limited and will only tell you what you already know.

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